Over the past two weeks, Dave (Tim DeKay) and Katie (Ally Walker) have pretty much taken over HBO's Tell Me You Love Me. The show on the whole has improved over time, but the almost seething tension between these two, particularly in the past two therapy sessions, has been the show's highpoint.
And they didn't even mention TiVo this week!
Of course, she has to learn to love herself first and all that.
Is it me, or does she not look like a "Borth." It just doesn't seem like a pretty enough name.
The theme of the show is really, "What are these women going to do about these awful men they're stuck with?" The men in the show are repellent, the women sympathetic. Even Jane Alexander's husband is playing weird games with her.
Carolyn - wants children so much and so blindly, she isn't honest with herself about what it means to be a parent or the fact that her husband isn't allowed any feelings that could possibly upset her, however honest. She thinks she wants honesty from her husband, but when he gives it to her, she rebels.
Jamie - doesn't love herself. Can't stand to be alone with herself. Pursues unavailable men. She's nice and pretty but far from perfect.
Katie - this is tougher - she is the most sympathetic character on the show. But she's something of a martyr. While the burden for their not having sex is clearly on Dave, I haven't seen her actually do a whole lot to relax or entice him. Her method is basically is to wait until they're alone at the end of the day and hope he makes the first move, then stew when he doesn't. She puts Dave on the defensive a lot - rightly or wrongly, this is not likely to build a healthy sex life.
I find Carolyn almost as unsympathetic as Palek, if not more so. Both are pretty dreadful. Palek is selfish, and Carolyn is like a steamroller ... no one is allowed to be happy if she's not happy, and most of the time, she's not happy.
I don't have a problem with the show being unbalanced, however. From a dramatic point of view, if this show was really about how everybody's OK, it wouldn't be as interesting. There needs to be an antagonist in every story. So far, it seems to me it's the men.
Katie needs to learn to be assertive and direct with Dave. Maybe he "should" have interpreted "I'm going to take a shower (to wash my steak hair)" to mean that she was gonna clean up for sex, but she "shouldn't" expect him to have to make such interpretations. She probably fears being rejected if she explicitly offers/asks for sex, so the indirect method gives her an out if Dave doesn't take the bait.
Dave doesn't want to talk about anything or acknowledge that anything is wrong, so when he finally talks, it comes out in a huge rant. Their story is a classic example of bad communication. Each expects the other to read minds.
He clearly still has some kind of libido.
What was the nature of what Katie found on Dave's computer? I couldn't make it out. Was it anything? I didn't get it.
The Jamie-Nick storyline is even more annoying than Jamie-Hugo. I have a hard time feeling sympathy for her. Her "problems" are entirely the result of her own choices, and the outcomes of her choices are easily predictable. Yawn.
So, are we supposed to think that C & P had been talking about putting the house on the market, or did P really come out of nowhere with that decision, without consulting C first? Course, C didn't consult P about virtually any aspects of the pregnancy efforts/pregnancy testing/fertility testing/insemination, so maybe that's just how they roll.
Of all the decisions made by this show's creators, the decision to name this character "Palek" was the strangest, followed by casting "Palek" with an actor who looks like Satan's hipper cousin.
I initially thought I would loathe Palek, but I actually find myself liking his character quite a bit. I like how forthright he is in his speech.
I thought he was a builder.
But I did read somewhere that he flips houses.
I have found myself laughing more during the past few episodes. Not a lot, but more.
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